Croniic

I live in the United States, New York to be exact. I am having problems with ping on this server especially. I have no problems on other games or other servers, but this one. I have a constant 120 - 140 MS and it's quite annoying! I've tried pingzapper and that only helps by 10MS tops. I was wondering if anyone has any idea how i can lessen the problem. Port forwarding ? Any other ping applications ? Something... pls! I cannot play unless below 100ms. Best regards -Croniic