The chat situation in your control panel is bugged. It tells me that i'm muted aswell, but i'm not. About your issue with connecting to the server, have you tried waiting approximatively 5-10mins ? Sometimes PandaWoW shuts down, in order to implement bug fixes. If you still have a problem, there's 2 options. 1st - you're Banned and 2nd - you need to contact an Admin.