Now i have seen it all, this forum only missed a gender equality debate, and now it is done.
Q: Why men in video games threat girls badly?
A: 80-90% of the men playing video games do not have a girlfriend. So basic men logic, if you counter something you can not obtain, threat it as if you never wanted it. (by misstreating of course)
Another issue is, we shouldn't forget this is only a video game, and opinions do not really matter, for smart minds of course. People play, to disconnect from real life, and get some rest. The game experience changes from person to person. Some people enjoy misstreating people while playing, some don't. It's up to YOU to not give a fuck about what others say, other peoples OPINION isn't a fact, therefore you shouldn't be worried. The best prison for a person is his own mind, if you continue with caring what other people think about you, you'll have a bad time.
If you want to be treatened as everyone else in a video game, don't point out that you're a female. People take it out like if you wanted to take an advantage with your gender.