Xvans2728 is that you? If yes why you made double threads? If you wanted to change the email in your format you should just edit your post instead of creating new forum account and new thread.
Rule 1.7. Only the owner of the account is responsible for the actions done on that account.
We can't restore your gear since it was your fault that you lost the gear. Next time don't share your account with anyone not even with your brother.
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Some servers used to do that it's called "server migration" as I remember and they did it to promote their servers but here on pandawow I believe that it's not the best idea. Anyway, it's not possible.
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In your case it's better to delete only itemtextcache.wdb instead of whole cache folder. Remember it's important to delete itemtextcache.wdb everytime you're log-in game but of course once in a while it's good to delete cache from your wow directory (when administration implementing fixes)
Try to have deleted itemtextcache.wdb everytime you log-in maybe this is causing disconnects.
Cache>WDB>enGB>itemtextcache.wdb and delete it
Tell me if it worked